Why Long-Term Thinking Wins: A Personal Shift That Changed Everything
Moving beyond the pursuit of market returns to build a foundation of clarity, discipline, and multi-generational stewardship.
For most of my career, I believed investment success came down to one thing: returns. If I could find the next outperformer or identify the next market rotation (value to growth, domestic to international, large caps to mid-caps) I thought I could stay ahead of the curve and deliver exceptional results.
I spent decades studying the markets, anticipating movements, and sharpening my intuition. And while that skill still matters and remains a strength I bring to clients today, I eventually learned that performance alone is not the key to long-term success.
About ten years ago, something changed. I began to recognize a truth that most investors only discover after experience humbles them: Long-term planning, not short-term performance, is what builds real, lasting wealth.
The Realist Mindset That Wasn’t Helping
I used to pride myself on being a “realist,” someone who could see trends early and adjust quickly. But I slowly recognized the flaw in that thinking: it can easily push you into market timing, excessive adjustments, and emotional decision-making.
And ironically, those habits often cause investors to underperform the very markets they’re trying to beat.
The research is clear:
- Investors who trade more often typically earn less
- Missing just a few of the market’s best days can devastate long-term returns
- Taxes and transaction costs quietly erode performance
I still believe in thoughtful allocation decisions (value vs. growth, small cap vs. international, private markets vs. public) but I now treat them as measured adjustments, not dramatic swings.
The New Philosophy: Stay Invested, Stay Why Focused
Today, our team at Infinite Wealth Planning focuses on disciplined, practical, long-term strategies:
- Small allocation adjustments, not large swings
- Tax-efficient decisions, especially in taxable accounts
- Invest where you plan to stay invested
- Reduce unnecessary turnover
- Use data from financial planning, tax modeling, and estate strategy to inform decisions
We invest for your lifetime and your family's lifetime, not just the next quarter.
Planning Is the Foundation, Not an Accessory
The biggest difference between short-term investing and long-term wealth building is planning.
We use:
- Financial planning software for cash flow, retirement, and scenario testing
- Tax and estate tools to evaluate Roth conversions, step-up in basis opportunities, and legacy impact
- Private market research to understand where long-term opportunities may emerge
And we’ve learned a simple truth: You cannot make a fiduciary decision by looking at only part of someone’s financial life.
Whether we manage all a family’s assets or only a portion, we must understand:
- Personal goals
- Business holdings
- Real estate
- Tax brackets
- Retirement timelines
- Family dynamics
- Charitable intentions
- Generational goals
That is the only way to make recommendations that are truly in their best interest.
The Hidden Value in Smart Planning
Families often come to us thinking the only decisions that matter are buying or selling investments.
Yet the real long-term gains often come from:
- HSA strategies
- Roth IRA conversions during low-income years
- Optimizing 401(k) vs. after-tax vs. Roth contributions
- Avoiding capital gains through step-up in basis
- Coordinating business value, tax impact, and estate planning
These decisions can create real value in your accounts. And they rarely depend on “beating the market.”
Why We Do This Work
With my background, combined with the expertise of the CFP® and CFA professionals in our group, we’ve built something special: a team more committed to our clients’ success than our own.
Many firms say that. But we live it.
We look for families who value:
- Patience
- Collaboration
- Transparency
- Education
- Generational thinking
- Shared values
These are the relationships that thrive.
We’re not the right fit for everyone and that’s okay. But when there is a fit, the partnership becomes incredibly powerful.
The Purpose of This Blog
If you’re reading this, you may be in the same place I was years ago: believing that investment performance is the ultimate measure of financial success.
Here’s what I’ve learned: Returns matter. But in our opinion, alignment, discipline, tax efficiency, planning, and long-term thinking matter more. Master those, and the returns take care of themselves.
A Free Planning Conversation
We offer a complimentary planning session, not a sales pitch. Just an honest conversation about your goals, concerns, and long-term vision.
If both sides feel a fit, wonderful. If not, we promise it will still be a meaningful and valuable use of your time.
At Infinite Wealth Planning and Capital Compass & Key, our mission is simple:
To help families become stewards of their wealth, not just investors, so they can build something meaningful for generations to come.
Written By:
Mark Anthony Gargano, MBA , CEPA, & CM&AA
Founder | L3 Holdings Inc.
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Disclosure:
Investment advice offered through National Wealth Management Group, LLC, an SEC-Registered Investment Adviser.
All performance referenced is historical and is no guarantee of future results. All indices are unmanaged and may not be invested into directly.
The information presented is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as a recommendation or specific advice.
Additional Disclosure:
This material does not take into account any investor’s specific objectives, financial situation, or particular needs and should not be construed as personalized advice. All investments involve risk, including the potential loss of principal. Strategies discussed may not be suitable for all investors and may change based on market, tax, or regulatory developments.
Before acting on any information contained herein, individuals should consult with a qualified financial, legal, or tax professional who can assess their unique circumstances.
According to Investor Research from the Following Institutions:
1. Barber, Brad M., and Terrance Odean. “Trading Is Hazardous to Your Wealth: The Common Stock Investment Performance of Individual Investors.” The Journal of Finance, 2000. Findings show that individual investors who trade more frequently significantly underperform the market due to timing errors and behavioral biases.
2. J.P. Morgan Asset Management. “Guide to the Markets.” Annual publication. Demonstrates that missing the market’s best days—often clustered around periods of volatility—substantially reduces long-term returns.
3. Bank of America Global Research. “Missing the Best Days Analysis.” Historical analysis (since 1930) showing that missing the 10 best days per decade reduces cumulative S&P 500 returns from ~17,700% to ~28%.
4. Morningstar. “Mind the Gap” Studies. Ongoing annual research. Shows the consistent gap between investor returns and investment returns due to timing decisions, behavior, and turnover.
5. Vanguard Research. “Advisor’s Alpha.” Identifies the long-term value added by behavioral coaching, tax-efficient investing, and disciplined allocation—not by market timing.
6. DALBAR. “Quantitative Analysis of Investor Behavior (QAIB).” Annual study. Long-running behavioral study showing that average investors earn meaningfully lower returns than the market over time due to timing-driven decisions.
